In our book club, which will meet this
Tuesday at 6, we are reading the Dance of the Dissident Daughter by Sue Kidd
Monk. Since I had driven to Jackson to
play tennis I was totally immersed in listening to the book. Then when I read the Gospel lesson for today
I could not believe my luck… How easy
this will be I thought! Just talk about
resurrection! Well no…. It’s more complicated than I had thought on
first blush. The thing is it is hard for
me to get past the parable to Jesus’ message.
The injustice just jumps off the page.
How dare the Sadducees to assume that
this woman who had not born any children for seven brothers has no say in the
matter herself. And here we are, in an
“enlightened society” and we just read this story focusing on Jesus’ authority
- without ever giving her rights, her dignity, her humanity a thought. At least we have read it that way for some
2000 years. But I suspect that you, like
me, find this parable revolting.
How did this
happen? How can we overlook the
assumption that a woman is simply chattel and not worth a moment of concern. I get a lot of ribbing for my “adjustments to
the liturgy” Most often the changes I
make involve substituting God for Lord or Creator for Father. Instead of “Praise Father Son and Holy Ghost in the
Doxology I sing “Creator. Christ, and Holy Ghost”. I would use Spirit but the
notes don’t match. LOL
There is, though, a
serious method to my madness. Lord usually
translates adonai, which is the equivalent of
ruler or master. Sometimes it is
translated from Yahweh (Jehovah), the sacred covenant name of the Desert God of
the Hebrew people. God, on the other hand, most often translates elohim, which appears to mean something like "the
mighty one." For me it is the
difference between “set over” and “set apart”.
To be set over is to rule, to control but to be set apart implies a
companionship and mutually loving relationship.
I also realize that there are times when the syntax makes it awkward to
make that substitution. But here’s the
thing, everytime it is awkward it makes us think about what we are saying. Sue
Kidd reminds us:
“The
core symbols we use for God represent what we take to be the highest
good....These symbols or images shape our worldview, our ethical system, and
our social practice--how we relate to one another. For instance, [Elizabeth A.] Johnson suggests that if a religion speaks
about God as warrior, using militaristic language such as how "he crushes
his enemies" and summoning people to become soldiers in God's army, then
the people tend to become militaristic and aggressive.
Likewise, if the key symbol of God is that of a male king (without any balancing feminine imagery), we become a culture that values and enthrones men and masculinity.”
― The Dance of the Dissident Daughter: A Woman's Journey from Christian Tradition to the Sacred Feminine
Likewise, if the key symbol of God is that of a male king (without any balancing feminine imagery), we become a culture that values and enthrones men and masculinity.”
― The Dance of the Dissident Daughter: A Woman's Journey from Christian Tradition to the Sacred Feminine
The Patriarchy that is woven into our
Gospel lesson today is a perfect example of the normalization of a tradition
that has little of nothing to do with God who is Love. And it effects not only our liturgy and music
and prayer, it infects our everyday lives.
It tears down the value of half of God’s children and puts unreasonable
stress on the other half. Kidd’s book is
subtitled “A Woman’s Journey from Christian Tradition to the Sacred
Feminine”. There is a fundamental truth
in the realization that in fact this awakening is a journey of loving self that
opens the door for being able to love the other. What we say in our worship can place
roadblocks or build super highways for that journey. In truth we have no way of speaking about
God, about the “mighty one, the holy one” without images. Our images and our symbols, Kidd says, those
things expressed in our music, in our prayer, in our physical space, they
create a universal language that the deepest reaches of our souls understand. (loosely
quoted)
There is a theological truth… Lex
Orandi Lex Credendi. Our prayer shapes
our belief. Embedded in our Eucharistic prayer
is an admonition from the celebrant… Proclaim
the mystery of faith! And the
congregation responds “Christ has died, Christ has risen, Christ will come
again”. Right there in the midst of the
Eucharistic Prayer we profess to believe in Christ’s Resurrection and note that
it is unprovable and therefore mysterious.
Mystery is one of my favorite words.
It is at once awful and wonderful, powerful and gentle, forceful and
yielding, firm but graceful. Mystery is
that which we seek, but which is just outside of our grasp.
In our gospel lesson this morning the
people with the rule books, the Sadducees, try really hard to make Jesus slip
up and look like a fool in front of all those people who have been following
him around and listening to him teach.
These Sadduccees were well-heeled politically and economically. They followed the Torah, but put less
emphasis on the writings of the prophets than some other groups. Since Torah does not speak of Resurrection
they did not profess to believe in it.
Other Jewish sects, notably the Pharisees, did believe in some form of
resurrection. Jesus doesn’t really
sidestep their question, but neither does he fall into their trap. Instead he alludes to a different paradigm
for living, one that is not bound by mortal constraints. But, I am not going to delve heavily into the
theology of the Resurrection now, rather I want to make the point that this
particular story that is told about Jesus is less about the theology of
resurrection and more about the authority which Jesus has claimed.
The Sadducees address Jesus as
Teacher, but only to set him up –– asking a trick question designed to stump
rather than to enlighten –– attempting to embarrass Jesus –– to undercut his
authority as a teacher. They invite Jesus into the no-win territory
between the no-resurrection Sadducees and the resurrection Pharisees –– a place
where he is bound to alienate at least half the crowd. But Jesus is not
stumped. Instead he boggles the mind by
taking the discussion out of the present context all together- honestly I think
He would have been uncomfortable with 7 brothers owning a woman… - He leads those gathered into that place of
mystery where the boundaries of 1st century Palestine society do not
apply. To a place where the children of
God transcend mortal coils and live in relationship with God and with each
other throughout eternity - for in God all are alive.
Jesus’ teachings in Luke, so full of
parables and healings stories, serve as an invitation to us to move beyond the
confines of our own limited knowledge and experience and to embrace the mystery
of abundant love and mercy. Come and
see, take, eat, enter in, behold, consider, dwell. Jesus invites us to consider a different way
of being in relationship with God and with each other. The invitation we have is to consent to a
relationship that surprises us, astounds us, comforts us and baffles us. But for this relationship we must put away
our earthly desires, paradigms, ways of being, and open ourselves up to the
limitless possibilities of God. We must
turn from being in control to trusting that whatever is down the road, God will
travel it with us. We must as Sue Kidd
says, allow the feminine Goddess in each of us burst out of the shackles of
patriarchy.
Trusting in God in this way allows us
to free ourselves from the literalistic rules that limit God. Frees us from energy sapping guilt and
shame. Trust allows us the time and
space to let life happen without worry and anxiety about what others think of
us or how we will juggle all the balls that we carry around day to day. Trust liberates us to live joyfully in the
midst of the mystery of God. How we express
that trust in word and action really does matter. Amen